Threads That Bind – Reflections on Intergenerational Connection

By Sue Moxom

If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the years, it’s that connection between generations doesn’t just warm the heart; it transforms lives.

At The Orchards Village, we’ve been nurturing intergenerational connections for a while now, and each visit reminds me just how healing and powerful these moments can be. It’s not simply about bringing children and older adults into the same room; it’s about creating meaningful, reciprocal relationships where both generations feel seen, valued, and uplifted.

In the lead-up to ANZAC Day this year, as part of Global Intergenerational Week 2025, we welcomed two age groups from Beach Haven Primary into our village...a first for us. The room lit up with laughter, singing, art, and heartfelt conversations. What stood out was the ease and joy with which the tamariki connected with our residents. They listened, hugged, shared their creations, and sang with such sincerity. For our residents, it was more than a visit...it was companionship, purpose, and a reminder that they still have so much to give.

Intergenerational therapy isn’t a new concept, but its impact never ceases to move me. These encounters challenge stereotypes, reduce isolation, and spark joy in ways that traditional activities sometimes can’t. For children, it cultivates empathy, patience, and respect. For older adults, it reignites a sense of belonging and legacy.

Moments like these don’t happen by chance. They happen because of people who believe in connection and community.

So I want to give a heartfelt shout-out to Karen, our incredible partner from Generation Connect NZ, for always being the bridge that makes these gatherings possible. To Steph from Beach Haven Primary, whose passion and care for her tamariki is matched only by her belief in the value of intergenerational learning. And last but certainly not least - to all my lovely residents, who open their hearts, share their stories, and remind us that ageing is not a retreat, but a continued journey of connection.

Together, we’re not just passing time, we’re weaving threads that bind generations in aroha, respect, and shared humanity. And that, to me, is the essence of therapeutic recreation.